Kairos Relationship & Personal Growth Coaching - Seattle, Washington

Corey Family

It is true and relevant to say that Bryan is an extremely intelligent person, but the reason why his guidance is so successful is beyond just a wide range of knowledge. He is an intuitive person, for one. If you describe a situation to him at the surface level, he will be able to tell you how it makes you feel, how it connects to other aspects of your life, and the effect that it has on your communication with others.

Bryan is also an empathetic person. In his counseling he will tell you of times that he has dealt with issues similar to your own, what he learned from it, how he reflects on it now. In doing so, his guidance goes beyond the clinical, it doesn't seem as though he's thumbing through the index of a text book to try and find a way to treat you, he is genuine in his help and it shows.

The time we spent with Bryan was extraordinarily valuable. It's now been a few weeks since our last session, and the effect it has had remains palpable. We have naturally integrated the tools he provided in guiding conversations so that they stay productive, which has created a serenity in the way we communicate.

When we first were researching Bryan, I was a little put off by the consistency of his five star reviews, it seemed potentially contrived. I was wrong. Bryan is a gifted counselor, his help has been incredible, and I would recommend him to anyone who needs an outside voice to help guide them.

Gari Hungwe

My wife and I had an extraordinary experience with Kairos Relationship & Personal Growth Coaching working with him on zoom. From the very first session with Bryan, we felt an immediate sense of empathy and understanding. He made both of us feel truly heard and respected, creating a safe space for open communication. What impressed us most was his ability to help us truly understand one another’s perspectives. Bryan has a thoughtful, structured approach that made it easier for us to communicate and helped us better interpret and appreciate each other’s thoughts and feelings.

What I found most valuable was that Bryan didn’t rely on short-term, one-off solutions. Instead, he helped us get to the heart of our issues and provided holistic, long-lasting strategies that empowered us to resolve conflicts independently. We never felt like we were being set up for continual sessions. Instead, we were given powerful tools that have strengthened our relationship and allowed us to grow together.

Thanks to Bryan’s guidance, we were able to break through communication barriers we hadn’t even recognized. His balanced, compassionate, and practical approach made the process feel natural and productive. The systems he taught us have not only increased trust and respect between us but have also proven useful in my professional life, making them invaluable beyond our relationship.

If you’re looking for a counselor who genuinely cares and offers tools that create real, lasting change—not just in your relationship but also in your personal growth—I can’t recommend Bryan and Kairos highly enough!

Caleb Raible-Clark

When we were looking for a couples counselor and considering the reviews of various options, I'll admit that I was skeptical of Bryan's profile. With a 5.0 average over that many reviews, I was suspicious: surely no-one could be that good.

Bryan is that good.

When I compare Bryan to other counseling I've received, two key things stand out:
1) He is highly structured; he has a curriculum you are working through, and his goal is that you understand and incorporate each portion. I never once felt directionless or like I was responsible for coming up with something to talk about, in contrast to past counselors I've worked with
2) He is very actively connecting dots. He listens closely, remembers what I said before, and works to draw out themes for examination and discussion. Other counselors I've worked with have felt like they were, essentially, responsive. They answered questions when I asked but otherwise felt like they were probing somewhat blindly. Bryan couldn't be more different. He's actively trying to put assemble a holistic view and help you see that view.

Bryan is simply the best.

Mwa Hungwe

I had the incredible opportunity to work with Bryan as my counselor through Kairos Relationship & Personal Growth Coaching, and it was truly transformative. Bryan’s guidance not only helped strengthen my relationship with my spouse but also deepened my connections with family and friends. His approach is insightful and empowering, fostering personal growth in a way that feels authentic and lasting. This experience has helped me grow as a human being, and I highly recommend Bryan to anyone seeking to improve their relationships and overall well-being.

Rhea Fagnan

Bryan is amazing! My husband and I sought his help during a rough patch in our marriage that had been building for a while. Our communication was deteriorating, and we needed guidance. Bryan listened without judgment, helped us see each other's perspectives, taught us about differences in our personalities and provided a clear framework to address our long-term issues and resentment that had built up from unresolved conflict. He VERY patiently was an incredible partner and coach throughout this entire process. We cannot thank him enough!

Under his guidance, we looked at our systems, created rituals, boundaries, and agreements. Bryan taught us better communication and negotiation skills and provided helpful scripts for future problems.

While we need to practice using these tools and skills more, our relationship is the best it’s been in a long time. We now feel confident tackling future issues thanks to Bryan's tools, scripts and framework. If you’re even considering reaching out, do it—you won't regret it! I only wish we had started sooner.

Alicia Miller

My partner and I got together after both being previously divorced. We realized early on that we wanted to work hard to make sure we did not repeat the same mistakes we had made in the past. We decided we were willing to face tough truths about ourselves as individuals and open ourselves up to being coached.

We found Bryan and after speaking with him, we knew right away that his philosophy would work well with what we needed. We needed a set program with set expectations and clear objectives (with a start date and end date, unlike many other counseling programs!). The work fell on us, but it was so clear as to what the work was. As long as we were aware of what we needed to work on and were honest with ourselves as individuals, there was no way we could fail!

We found ourselves being more and more enthusiastic about implementing his methods into our life together. We found a huge decline in stress and being able to let go of resentment. In referring back to our sessions with him, we can talk through conflicts with much more level-headedness and can resolve things so much quicker than before. Our life organization has improved tremendously and we are able to arrange our priorities in ways we weren't able to before!

Even if I didn't have a partner, I'd still want to work with Bryan as a life coach! My partner and I can't thank him enough for how much happier we are.

Yan Yu

My husband and I met Bryan during a challenging period in our relationship, and we are incredibly grateful for the support and guidance we’ve received over the past few months. Bryan is more than just a counselor; he is a trusted friend and mentor. His genuine kindness and accountability shine through in every session. After speaking with several other counselors initially, we knew instantly Bryan was the right fit for us after our first conversation. We were so impressed by his professionalism and empathy.

Bryan created a safe, welcoming space where we felt comfortable sharing our deepest thoughts and emotions. He listened attentively to both of our perspectives and provided insightful guidance that helped us navigate through our issues constructively. His practical tools and techniques have had a profound impact on our day-to-day interactions. Bryan has a remarkable ability to communicate as if he has a magical way with words. We really enjoy talking with him.

Thanks to Bryan’s expertise and dedication, we have made significant progress in strengthening our bond and communicating effectively. We genuinely feel more connected than ever before. We will definitely continue our journey with Bryan and stay in touch with him. We wholeheartedly recommend Bryan to any couple seeking guidance and support in their relationship. He is not just a skilled professional but also a compassionate individual who genuinely cares about his clients' well-being. Our experience with Bryan has been transformative, and we are so grateful to have found such a great counselor.

Quina Feldstein

Kairos Relationship Coaching quite literally saved our marriage before it even began. After working with two licensed marriage and family therapists, we were left feeling more frustrated than ever- like we were going in circles with no real solutions. Bryan’s process, however, is in a league of its own. He uncovered things about our relationship that we couldn’t even identify ourselves and gave us actionable tools to work through them. The framework, scripts, and homework he provides actually teach empathy and emotional intelligence in a way that feels transformative. It’s not just about understanding each other better- it’s about learning how to grow together, with accountability on both sides. Bryan is a game-changer.